Expressing sexual desire is an internal process. It’s a process of removing your internal barriers to sharing your sexuality with others. Recognize that you will be rejected and turned down by a lot of women regardless of whatever you do. Accept this and appreciate it. But if you measure success with women by lack of rejection, then you will always be disappointed. If you measure success with women by the enjoyment and honesty of your interactions with them, then you can easily have a 100% success rate.
This is an internal and emotional process, not an external behavioral one. The external behaviors are an internal side effect, not the cause of the attraction.
And becoming an attractive man of status is a process of investing in yourself and caring about yourself. Again, this is an internal and emotional process—how you feel about yourself, how you perceive yourself, how much you care about yourself—and bringing beautiful women into your life is a side-effect of that internal investment.
External investment will lead you nowhere. At best, it will bring superficial or dysfunctional relationships, and at worst it will bring you absolutely nothing. Yes, absolutely nothing. Proceed with caution.
Credit: Article by Mark Manson
