Myth 6: The G-spot cannot be stimulated through penetrative sex
Most of my readers don’t need to be lectured on how to bring a woman to orgasm. You already know that five minutes of sweaty thrusting without direct clitoral stimulation will not cut it. (By “direct” stimulation, I mean the external portions of the clitoris and not the internal portions surrounding the vaginal canal.
But lately, I keep reading that fingers are the best way to stimulate the G-spot. On the contrary, the penis is perfectly designed to hit that zone.
The confusion partly arose out of outdated anatomy books which illustrate coitus with the penis entering straight into the vagina. This is not how intercourse works. Let’s just say there is a reason homo Sapien’s penis bends — her pleasure.
The penis makes a boomerang shape once inside the vaginal canal, allowing your partner to hit different areas depending on their position. (For non-hetero couples, try an angled toy or dildo designed to hit the area.)
One way penis owners can hit the G-spot is with the Coital Alignment Technique (CAT) — a variation of the classic missionary position that researchers found results in more female orgasms. With this position, the penetrating partner is on top, but they shift their body up and forward to align their chest with the bottom person’s shoulders. (Tip: Try a wedge or pillow under the bottom partner.)
Then instead of thrusting in and out, both partners rock their hips in a grinding motion. (Incidentally, this is why it is called “grinding the corn.”) The takeaway is to focus on pressure, NOT thrusting in and out. You are grinding corn, not shucking it.
I hope this latest research clears up some of the G-spot myths. Unfortunately, we still need to learn more about the G-spot, G-zone, pleasure panini, or whatever you want to call it.
Article Credit: Carlyn Beccia
